Strip dead Windows-only code paths, add LTO/march build flags, seed default GM account

Removes now-unreachable #ifdef _WIN32 branches across Common/ and the three
server binaries (all builds are Linux-only), deletes the entirely unused
SEH exception-handling shim and an orphaned vendored MySQL client header.
Enables LTO and -march=x86-64-v2 in Release builds for a small free perf win.

Also seeds a default GM account (gmadmin/changeme) via
database sql files/gm_account.sql so a fresh deploy has something to log
into the web admin panel with, switches the MariaDB data directory from a
Docker named volume to a host bind mount for visibility/backup, and expands
the README with a fuller Docker deployment walkthrough.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Src/World Server/main.cpp

@@ -60,9 +60,6 @@ int main(int argc, char *argv[])
 	else
 	{
         delete server;
-        #ifdef _WIN32
-		system("pause");
-		#endif
 		return -1;
 	}